I haven't had much luck with these sites. Are there any real guys left out there, or is this all spam? How many guys do I have to talk to to find the one guy who isn't a bot?

I want to have fun with a real guy who is willing to try anything at least once, or at least show me how! Serious, no games!! Real men only pls!! And if you have real women who like girls, pls, by all means, bring them along!!